The "Why?" Question

Jeremiah 13:22a, 25: "And if you ask yourself, 'Why has this happened to me?' - it is because of your many sins . . . . This is your lot, the portion I have decreed for you,' declares the LORD."


In over a decade of ministry experience, I have heard the "Why?" question asked many times. Distraught people have sat in my office, crying out "Why has this happened to me? . . . Why has God let this happen? . . ." Whereas we must be slow to ascribe causality to misfortune (for in a fallen world, even those who have lived in obedience to Christ will experience tribulation), there are those times when one's misery is directly related to sinful choices made in life. And whether these sinful choices involve poor relational decisions, compromises associated with such relationships, unethical choices in business or at church or in school . . . we know that the list of painful consequences for sinful behavior seems limitless.


I guess what fascinates me is the perceived naivete of those who have disobeyed the precepts of the Lord and question why they are suffering the consequences of such miscreant behavior. Many will feel as if they are victims undeserving of such painful experiences. With eyes of bewilderment, they look across my desk and wonder in astonishment that God would allow such results to befall them.


Again, I must reiterate that sensitivity is warranted in all such circumstances, for every person anguishing over tribulation is deserving of love and compassion; still, these times can be very instructional for those who would incline their ear to hear wisdom. We all have felt the pangs of misfortune that have arisen from our sinful choices, and we know that some of these consequences will live with us for the entirety of our lives. What we must do is be open to God's Word of correction, and reorient our lives to faithful obedience to Him. We may not be able to remedy the consequences of past sins; however, we can permit God to work redemptively in us through our contrition, confession, and re-commitment to Him as LORD. God is loving and able to restore us to right fellowship with Him. If we determine to seek Him above all persons and things, the Lord will turn our tragedies not only into triumphs but opportunities of ministry for others who are traversing similar paths.


What we must first do is get beyond the shock and presumed innocence that we think we have. Let us look introspectively at ourselves to see if any sin has brought us to the place where we find ourselves. And if God's convicting presence brings such awareness, let us repent (i.e. turn) from our wickedness and seek the Lord. He will work redemptively and restoratively to draw us from the pit of despair into a place of blessing (see Psalm 84:5-7).